R is for Responsibility

I am honestly tired of having to be responsible for everybody and everything in this house.  My mom and my sister act like just because they are giving money to household bills, that makes the responsible.  It doesn't.  After all, the way they get money is from SSI.  They don't work to earn it.  They sit on their butts and don't have to do a thing.

What do they do when it comes to trash?  The simple thing, you'd think, would be to throw it away in a garbage can.  Do they ever do this? No, they don't.  Instead, they leave it on the floor and throw it all over the place. It is on desks and tables and chairs and the couch.

They don't even put their dirty laundry in the bathroom.  I have used my own money to go buy them hampers and they don't use them!  I am really tired of finding their dirty laundry all over the floors of this house.

Then, when it comes to feminine sanitary items (maxi pads and depends), they also don't throw those away.  Those are disgusting and all over the floor.  I can't think of a day I haven't come across one and had to put it in trash.

My mom and sister are idiots when it comes to the drain blocker to block hair from going in the drain.  They complain that it takes too long to drain the sink or the tub.  They take the drain blocker out from the drain and then the hair is in the water and goes in the drain!  They then blame me for the hair in the drain!  It needs to stay in the drain and be removed after the water drains.  It then needs to be pulled straight up and the hair needs to be thrown away.

Why can't they ever be clean?  Why can't they clean up after themselves?

As a creative person,  I don't mind a little bit of clutter.  I like a house to look like somebody lives in it.  However, how they keep the house is WAY TOO DIRTY.  It is like living with two hoarders!  How can I possibly even open the doors to the entrances of the house?

My mom and I really need to switch rooms, too.  She needs to be MUCH CLOSER to the bathroom.  We also need our plumbing fixed because of the toilets.  It seems if the toilet from the front bathroom is flushed, it backs up to the back bathroom (which Briana decided should be called the "backthroom.")

I know part of it is the Asperger's that they have, but it's still very bad.

My mom also has some type of neurological degeneration and then she also has very low blood pressure.  When she's dizzy, she won't get up and walk, so her muscles have definitely atrophied.  She is so weak that she takes a half hour just to get to the bathroom from where is room is right now.

I also have to keep track of all three of our finances since they have no idea how to take care of money!

Here are some articles about Asperger's:
A Mind Like a ViewMaster: Understanding How People with Asperger's Think
Jenny McCarthy, Holly Robinson Peete, and My Experience with Asperger's
Interview with Derek Bartholomaus, Creater of Jenny McCarthy Body Count